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Man Appointed Leaders Versus God Appointed Leaders

Posted by Samaria Maria Colbert on July 19, 2018 at 9:55 AM

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Kingdom Creative Counseling

Posted by Samaria Maria Colbert on July 3, 2018 at 12:50 AM

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Letting Go Of Offense

Posted by Samaria Maria Colbert on June 27, 2018 at 10:10 AM

Letting Go Of Offense 



I have learned sometimes you really have to separate people from their actions. It sounds strange but often times we get offended (at least I have) because of how someone treated me not understanding that they had pure motives but they went about it the wrong way.


I have also learned that often people's actions towards you has nothing to do with you rather their own insecurities. They are broken in someway and your presence triggers their own pain and feelings of inadequacy. Even though you never felt anything negative towards them, their actions are a reflection of how they feel about themselves.


Learn to forgive. Yes you can still hold people accountable and rebuke them in love. Yes you can and in some cases should have a conversation about what will not happen should you be in my life in the future. Yet forgiveness is always the answer. Reestablishing communication may not always be.

Prophetic Dream: Mental Health Ministry

Posted by Samaria Maria Colbert on June 27, 2018 at 10:05 AM

Prophetic Dream about mental health ministry.


About two weeks ago I had a dream that I believe represents those of us who are embracing and operating in mental health ministry. In the dream I was sitting in a church and a young lady was in the front getting ready to giving her testimony. As she is in the front of audience I see her getting very nervous. She gets so nervous she starts hyperventilating to the point where she looks like she is getting ready to pass out. It looks like she is having a heart attack. A group of people from the church run up to her including myself and the ordained ministers. I am the only one who reaches her and they disappear.


I say with authority, "you are having a panic attack." I then lay my hands on her back and say, "I rebuke the spirit of fear off of you."

 

I believe the dream is indicating of how God is birthing us as Christ counselors. There was no mistake that I was able to get to her when others couldn't. Or that I was able to determine right away what it was. The others thought she was having some kind of health condition and again she looked like she was having a heart attack.


I don't share my dreams often and am careful what I post on social media believe it or not. However I believe the dream also meant how God is moving in the church in regards to mental health ministry. There are some emotional,spiritual, and mental issues that will not be addressed by church due to the lack of knowledge, they are also not equipped to address. Traditional ministry can't properly assess or treat this.


God is raising you up, right from the pew. God is birthing you and me into greater realms of mental health ministry. We are the answer, we have been called, appointed and anointed for such as time as this.


When they say, "where is the church?" Again, God has already provided the answer. God is moving!


BTW: I know there is a greater interpretation for the dream but for the sake of time and discretion.


Be encouraged saints! God is up to something. I believe everything not seen will be seen shortly. Whatever business, ministry you have in the mental health ministry arena God is getting ready to birth it in greater realms with a great outpouring over your practice. Your going to see supernatural increase. God is allowing the world to expose certain things in the mental health world so that this ministry begins to come forth in exponential ways. Your getting ready to see great increase in your business, your books, your training programs, your curriculums that are mental health and ministry related. It is going to happen suddenly.


Be encouraged! I only shared that dream because it wasn't just for me but for others that are like me and do this kind of ministry.

Singles Only

Posted by Samaria Maria Colbert on June 27, 2018 at 9:55 AM


For single women...as a therapist I often have to say the same thing to different clients.


1. If a man is truly interested in you he WILL pursue you. If he is not pursuing you take the hint
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2. If a man half pursues you leave him alone. Remember Christian women Ahab wants a wife to, regardless of how unfit he is to be a husband. If he expects you to be the man and him to be the woman and you are not in a relationship, it doesn't get better from there. Save yourself wasted time and energy.


3. Your are enough!!!! You do not have to change, dumb yourself down, minimize your success, or play yourself small in order to say you have a man. The man that God has for will be able to lead you, cover you and protect you. Your success will not deter a real man who is not intimidated by you.


4. There is no such thing as a man over thirty who is "just shy." That is the excuse woman use to excuse a man's behavior.


5. Sex outside of marriage, living with a man that is not your spouse is not of God. Masturbation, inappropriate sexual touching, oral sex is still WRONG outside of marriage! Holiness is still right!


6. If you are over 30 you have to date with a purpose at this point you are not interested in dating to "see where things go". Either this is going to head to marriage within the next 6 months to a year or you are not the one and you are wasting time. State what you want up front, if they don't want the same thing LET THEM GO! You don't have time to waste to see if they will change their minds.


7. You need to understand what your vision, purpose and God's plan is for your life is. They need to articulate what their vision, purpose and God's plan is for their life. If they can't articulate it, don't know where they are going, and can't have a decent conversation, saying something other than "what are you doing?" Let the go! You are wasting your time.


8. Standards, expectations and boundaries. Say it with me, "standards, expectations and boundaries." One more time say it again, "standards, expectations and boundaries." One more time for the people in the back. (ok just kidding, no I am not)


9. Remember everyone doesn't have good taste. Common sense is not so common. Stupid is as stupid does. Never forget these words of wisdom.


10. People often look good on paper. They can sell you a mirage, but looking good on paper and being the whole truth are two completely different things. Rachet comes in all different shapes, sizes, titles, positions, and dispositions. Don't be deceived by what you see.


Bonus: Let God lead you. Repeat, "let God lead me."

Psalm 37:23 (KJV)
23 The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way.
Psalm 37:4 (ESV)


4 Delight yourself in the Lord,
and he will give you the desires of your heart.


God will give you the desires of your heart. If he is not your hearts desire. Keep it moving.
Pick up my book: Worth The Wait
“A woman’s heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her.”
It is okay to guard your heart.


Proverbs 4:23 (NIV)
23 Above all else, guard your heart,
for everything you do flows from it.


I am convinced that a lot of heart ache, pain, and wasted years could be avoided if we simply guard our heart. When someone gets in your heart it is hard to get them out. Have a guarded heart versus having walls up they are two completely different things. Walls come as a result of hurt. A guarded heart is a result of being clear about who you are in Christ, again there is a difference. When a man is truly interested in you, He will pursue God first to inquire about you. God is your over protective Father. He will either approve or deny access. You have a responsibility to guard your heart until you hear from God and until He seeks God's favor for your heart.


NEVER FORGET IT!


Radio Interview With Samaria M Colbert by Prophetic Expressions

Posted by Samaria Maria Colbert on January 23, 2018 at 12:40 AM

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10 Entrepreneur Lessons I Learned in 2017

Posted by Samaria Maria Colbert on December 14, 2017 at 12:50 AM




So here we are in just a mere 19 days left, and we will say goodbye to 2017. A new year is coming. I have grown, matured and learned so much as an entrepreneur I thought I’d write a short blog about it, okay maybe it won’t be so short but go with me.


This year was an incredible year of growth and development for me. Don’t get me wrong it hasn’t come without it’s challenges, but in everything I have gone through I continue to be amazed at the faithfulness of God.



This year some of my dreams became a reality. My business is no longer housed in my home office, or in my portable portfolio. This year after many years of looking for just the right space we are located in a beautiful space in downtown Greensboro, overlooking a great view. If you knew the story of how I got it, you’d praise God with me. This year my writing career went to another level, I wrote and completed more projects than any other year. I will spare you the details but trust me I am just in awe of the magnitude that God allows me to produce. When His hand is on what you do there is no stopping you.



So like I said this year has been a great year of growth, transformation, and strength. I can end this year on a positive note, I am so grateful for the journey. I thought I’d blog ten things I have learned about being a Christian entrepreneur. Of course, there are more than ten but for the sake of time let’s stick to 10. They are in no particular order, and in everything I do I will never leave out my love, Jesus Christ, without Him nothing would be possible.



The value of time. One of my sayings is that I value my time like I value my money I am very careful who I spend it on. I am a woman that is driven to pursue purpose on purpose. If there is one thing, I have learned about myself as an entrepreneur that is I have zero tolerance for people who waste my time. I have concluded this year if an individual is not pursuing purpose like I am and if they cannot articulate themselves, if they call me to talk about nothing, I have no use for them. I am not mean, but I value my time, I am not going to waste it doing nothing, with purposeless conversations. I know that may sound mean to some of you, but that is my truth. When you have a vision that you are actively working, you don’t have time for purposeless people who are sent to distract you from the assignment.



Connections- This year I finally decided to be careful about connections. Just because someone is supportive of your vision doesn’t mean they are capable of actually helping you to fulfill it. You can love someone with all your heart, but the reality is they can’t go where God is taking you and believe it or not that is okay. That’s one of the life lessons God has had to teach me over and over again.




Sacrifice. I knew entrepreneurship took sacrifice, but this year I have sacrificed so much more than I did in years before. For example today, I drove to one of my offices that is an hour away, then drove back to my downtown office in Greensboro for a consultation. The entire time I just wanted to go to my home and go to bed. I get to my downtown office, and the client decides she would rather do the consultation over the phone. Yes, I was slightly annoyed by this, I didn’t have to drive back an hour just to meet with her, I could’ve have just called her. Then I turned and drove another two hours to get to a two day training (a training I am not looking forward to by the way.) My point is today was a sacrifice. An entrepreneur spends time, up before everyone else, staying later then anyone else, all pursuing the vision. Often it doesn’t feel like work because you enjoy what you do, but today it felt like work. I am exhausted, but I needed to add content to my website so after I got to my hotel I started this blog, plus I can’t let a good idea go to waste.



Insurance, insurance, insurance. Yes, I am a therapist in private practice, so navigating and learning insurance has been quite challenging but you know what I learned a lot. It is not as frustrating as it was at the beginning. There is a learning curve.



I learned never invest more into someone else's vision than they are willing to invest in themselves. I push myself hard, so when I connect with others to complete their work, I push them just as hard. However, I learned I couldn’t want it more for them then they want it for themselves. I learned to let go.




NO! NO! NO! I have learned to say No! No! I can’t just talk to you over the phone “just to talk” I am a therapist, so when you say “I need to talk.” What you mean is “I need to see a therapist I just don’t want to acknowledge a mental health diagnosis, I don’t want to come to your office, I don’t want to sit down and talk because I don’t want to acknowledge my mental illness.” Christians have such stigma when it comes to mental illness; they don’t want to call it what it is. If you are not my mother, my sister or my friend, but you need to “just talk” what I interpret that is, you are wanting to be my client without acknowledging it as so. Feel free to call my number, set up an appointment for an IN OFFICE counseling session, otherwise NO! I will not be “just talking” to you.



NO! I do not offer FREE services. I heard it said that people don’t respect you when it’s free. Yep! I learned this one the hard way. By the way, I have had people call me and ask me to write entire books for them for free, consult with them for free. Ummm NO! It takes time to write a book, particularly the kinds of books I write. No, I don’t just throw together a pamphlet I mean a book overnight. I take time, do my research and make sure the book is industry standard. I learned that people that continue to ask for free services don’t respect or value you as an entrepreneur. That may sound strange, but my bills are not free, my office space is not free, my office supplies are not free, the upkeep of my license to practice is not free, my websites, marketing material, book cover, editors, etc. all of that is not free. My time is NOT free. Don’t ask!



Walk with confidence. I got the confidence lesson a couple of years ago, but this year I learned confidence to a greater degree. My pastor told us a few months ago, people may not talk about your progress, but they will see. I would like to add people won’t believe in your vision until they see results. No one believed in me, but God when I started out over twenty years ago I was a broke college student who just wanted to graduate from college. Now they see the results. I don’t do what I do for people, but I realized a long time ago I had to do what I did unto God not to please people.



My life principle is never to pursue people. I live by this; I pursue God. This year I stuck to my guns. If someone doesn’t see my value that is their problem. Everybody can’t see the difference between a cubic zirconia and a diamond. It is not your job to convince anyone of who you are; it is your job to be what God has called you to be.



Ultimately Christian entrepreneurship is not meant to seek financial stability; it is not to seek a house or a car, it is not so we have the accolades of man, although those are great benefits when you become a success. Christian entrepreneurship is really about seeking to advance God’s kingdom, His way. When I think of advancing God’s kingdom, and that He would use me I am only grateful to God for choosing me.

Matthew 6:33 (KJV)

33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you.


My advice to all entrepreneurs, as God told me, seek right living, seek to advance God kingdom through His methods. Let us let go of self and pursue Him at all cost. Be blessed and go forth in Jesus name.

Samaria M Colbert © 2017


What Is the headship anointing?

Posted by Samaria Maria Colbert on November 28, 2017 at 1:00 PM


By Samaria M Colbert





The The headship anointing operates at a different level of vision than most people

Headship anointing is the ability to delegate authority. The chapter discussed Exodus 18, Moses had to select certain men to release his authority on to.


There is an old saying that goes. “if you want something done right do it yourself”. This is wrong very wrong, and will get you wearied and stressed out very quickly. Learn how to delegate authority to others.


The headship anointing operates in greater dimensions of signs, wonders and miracles in both the spirit realm and in business.


Headship anointed persons operate in divine boldness, confidence and authority.


Headship anointing is another word of visionary. Those who have the headship anointing branch out into new territory. They have the ability to bring the kingdom to earth, through the marketplace.


If you have made it thus far in this book, you have the headship anointing. It comes along with God’s kind of success. There is so much more I could say, but I won’t. I will end with this final scripture. Remember God is our source, not man, not our marketing strategy, God. He will be the one to bring success at your door.


The headship anointing is the anointing to develope and grow other people. 

Tell Them........

Posted by Samaria Maria Colbert on November 13, 2017 at 3:45 PM



When people say a woman can't be a entrepreneur, in ministry, married and have a family tell them to read their bible. When they say you can't have it all tell them to read their bible. When they say your doing to much tell them read their bible. When they say your too ambitious, intimidating, or to driven tell them to read their bible. When they tell you, you have to slow down to get a man tell them to read their bible. When they tell you what you can't do because you are a woman, tell them to read their bible. There we are right in the text.


Proverbs 31:10-31 Amplified Bible (AMP)


Description of a Worthy Woman


10 [a]An excellent woman [one who is spiritual, capable, intelligent, and virtuous], who is he who can find her?

Her value is more precious than jewels and her worth is far above rubies or pearls.


11 The heart of her husband trusts in her [with secure confidence],

And he will have no lack of gain.


12 She comforts, encourages, and does him only good and not evil

All the days of her life.


13 She looks for wool and flax

And works with willing hands in delight.


14 She is like the merchant ships [abounding with treasure];

She brings her [household’s] food from far away.


15 She rises also while it is still night

And gives food to her household

And assigns tasks to her maids.


16 She considers a field before she buys or accepts it [expanding her business prudently];

With her profits she plants fruitful vines in her vineyard.


17 She equips herself with strength [spiritual, mental, and physical fitness for her God-given task]

And makes her arms strong.


18 She sees that her gain is good;

Her lamp does not go out, but it burns continually through the night [she is prepared for whatever lies ahead.


19 She stretches out her hands to the [b]distaff,

And her hands hold the spindle [as she spins wool into thread for clothing].


20 She opens and extends her hand to the poor,

And she reaches out her filled hands to the needy.


21 She does not fear the snow for her household,

For all in her household are clothed in [expensive] scarlet [wool].


22 She makes for herself coverlets, cushions, and rugs of tapestry.

Her clothing is linen, pure and fine, and purple [wool].


23 Her husband is known in the [city’s] gates,

When he sits among the elders of the land.


24 She makes [fine] linen garments and sells them;

And supplies sashes to the merchants.


25 Strength and dignity are her clothing and her position is strong and secure;

And she smiles at the future [knowing that she and her family are prepared].


26 She opens her mouth in [skillful and godly] wisdom,

And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue [giving counsel and instruction].


27 She looks well to how things go in her household,

And does not eat the bread of idleness.


28 Her children rise up and call her blessed (happy, prosperous, to be admired);

Her husband also, and he praises her, saying,


29 “Many daughters have done nobly, and well [with the strength of character that is steadfast in goodness],

[c]But you excel them all.”


30 Charm and grace are deceptive, and [superficial] beauty is vain,

But a woman who fears the Lord [reverently worshiping, obeying, serving, and trusting Him with awe-filled respect], she shall be praised.


31 Give her of the product of her hands,

And let her own works praise her in the gates [of the city].

The Spirit of Jezebel Versus The Spirit of Esther (A Proverbs 31 Woman)

Posted by Samaria Maria Colbert on October 9, 2017 at 2:05 PM

The Spirit of Jezebel Versus The Spirit of Esther (A Proverbs 31 Woman)



By: Samaria M Colbert



As promised this blog is a follow up to the previous blog where I talked about the spirit of Ahab. As stated it is a demonic agenda sent by satan himself to emasculate the man. Emasculate means deprive (a man) of his male role or identity. We see this subtle demonic attack in our world in a greater way. Unfortunately, many Christians have fallen prey to the demonic agenda because we have a many Christians who are carnal, fleshly driven. Whenever an individual is carnally driven, they cannot see or perceive the things of the spirit. They certainly cannot see the plan or agenda of the enemy, because his success is based up the spirit of delusion and deception. Just because it looks right, doesn’t mean it is right.



The demonic agenda that is infiltering our world is coming in the form of the feminist agenda. The feminist agenda appears to be about fighting for women’s rights, and equality. Sounds great right? Well if you study further and look at the principles of the perspective it really is based on the spirit of Jezebel. Don’t get me wrong I am not against a women being in positions of power and authority. I am a woman who is very much empowered in ministry, entrepreneurship, and life. We cannot deny the demonic agenda of satan.



God wants and expects women to operate in power, authority, dominion, in ministry, business, and in every area of our lives. However, He never created us to be in competition with a man. He never created us to emasculate them so that we can be in charge.



This is why I write this blog. There is difference between the spirit of Jezebel (feminist agenda) versus a woman who walks in authority designated by the spirit of God. To truly understand this we must understand the difference between Queen Jezebel, and Queen Esther. Esther is not a spirit she was a woman who walked in God's authority. The spirit she walked in was that of a virtuous woman as found in Proverbs 31.



In order for us to get clarity, we must understand the difference between the Jezebel spirit (Queen Jezebel) versus Queen Esther (Proverbs 31). This blog proves that a woman can be in a position of power, authority, kingdom minded while being covered, ordained and sent from God. We have to know the difference, so we are aware of the differences in the demonic agenda versus the Kingdom of God's agenda.



Similarities

• Both were married to Kings. Esther was married to King Ahasuerus. Jezebelwas married to King Ahab.

• Both had positions of power and authority

• Both had the kings heart.

• Both were beautiful

• Both were leaders

• Both were prophetic

• Both had the power to make decisions

• Both had power and influence

• Both were very intelligent


Differences



• Jezebel almost destroyed a nation. Esther saved a nation.

• Jezebel sought power by any means necessary. Esther never sought power but was put in a position of power by God.



Esther 4:14 (KJV)

14 For if thou altogether holdest thy peace at this time, then shall there enlargement and deliverance arise to the Jews from another place; but thou and thy father's house shall be destroyed: and who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this?

• Jezebel was controlling and manipulative.

• Esther was the complete opposite not controlling, not manipulative, quiet, discerning and kind. Esther was a humble woman.

• Esther was honored by God. God despised Jezebel because of her actions.

• Esther was submitted to her leaders including her adoptive father, and husband.

• Jezebel was unsubmitted, she usurped (to take, seize, disregard) her husband’s authority for her own agenda.

• Esther respected her husband’s authority, and didn’t have her own agenda, but had an agenda for God’s kingdom to be saved.

• Jezebel worshipped and served false idols (Baal)

• Esther  worshipped and served God.

• Jezebel never sought counsel from others. She only sought other false prophets who would help to advance her demonic agenda.

• Esther sought wise counsel from godly fatherly leaders such as her Uncle Mordecai who was a godly man who honored God with his life.

• Jezebel's father was an idol worshiper.



There is so much more that we can say about their difference. My point is God never made any assumptions that women can’t be powerful, be positions of authority, and influence. If we are going to be women who advance God’s kingdom, are used powerfully to save our nation and our world, we must renounce this feminist agenda (Jezebel’s agenda really) and embrace Esther’s spirit (spirit of the Proverbs 31 woman). Again God wants us to be powerful beyond belief. He doesn’t want us to play politics, disrespect the authority of a man, or leaders, be manipulative or controlling for our own agenda. The remainder of the blog is how to identify the agenda/spirit of Jezebel versus and how to identify the agenda/spirit of Esther. If you want to be honored by God, we must see through the eyes of Esther.



Identifying the Jezebel Spirit in Others



Note you don’t have to have all identified, but if you identify at least of five the traits noted, we know that you struggle with a spirit of Jezebel. Note the Jezebel spirit can be found in both men and women.


• Embraces false god’s, goddesses, African spiritualist, ancient beliefs, tarot cards, psychic mediums, light work.


• Is spiritual but doesn’t identify herself as a Christian. Or if she does identify herself as a Christian she still all the while embraces other spiritual beliefs that are outside of the realm of Christ.


• Difficulty in relationships with men.

• May have been married multiple times.

• Difficulty submitting.

• Calls herself a prophet, a prophetess. If she isn’t embraced or put in a leadership position in the church, she will leave start her own church and give herself a title of prophet, prophetess, apostle and or bishop.

• Controlling

• Manipulative

• Unsubmitted

• Plays psychological games to get you or her husband to give her what she wants. She can cry fake tears at the drop of a dime.

• Sexually perverted.

• Embraces LGBT movement.

• Jezebel secretly suffers from church hurt; she was rejected by the church whether it was warranted or not. Because she is secretly hurt whenever something happens in our world whether it be a natural disaster, political unrest, crime, scandal she uses use facebook and social media as a means to subtly, attack the church, Christians, Christian leaders and its members.


• Because of her leadership capability, she is often put in positions of leadership within the church.


• Starts her own church and slowly begins to put seeds of discord in the hearts of others towards their leaders with the agenda of getting people to embrace her and her movement.


• Her ministry is not really about advancing the kingdom of God; rather it is about highlighting her and her own importance.


Calls herself a “spiritual father” to others. ( Contrary to populate belief a spiritual mother is NOT the same as a spiritual father but both of them have their place within the kingdom of God. A woman is NOT a spiritual Father, NEITHER is a man a spiritual mother. These are two separate but needed positions of authority within the body of Christ. A woman cannot be a spiritual father. A man cannot be spiritual mother.


• Has blatant disregard for the rights of others.

• Secretly jealous and envious of others position of authority particular of another man’s authority.

• Always has a false agenda. She can’t do something out of the kindness of her heart; she does something with the expectation of getting something in return.

• Will use tears as a means of manipulation.

• Co-dependent. Jezebel needs someone with the spirit of Ahab in order for her to be successful. That is why we have this demonic agenda to emasculate the man. Jezebel has to dethrone Ahab’s position for her to push her demonic agenda.

• Secretly envious of other women. (intimidated but she is not going to tell you and will display the opposite.)

• Anytime a woman constantly has other conflicts with other women Jezebel’s spirit is in the midst somewhere.

• Insecure

• Spiritual but not Christian.

• Flesh driven.

• Prideful, arrogant, conceded

• Wants to be on top at all cost.

• Sexually provocative.

• Doesn’t have a true father, father figure. If she does, he is more than likely another Ahab.

• Is married to a man with a position but she is really running the show. (Pastor, co-pastor, etc.)

• Wants to be needed and will create chaos in others in order to be needed.

• Controlling of her grown children.

• Prophetic is often known for her prophetic accuracy and is put in a position of authority within the church. Just because someone is prophetic doesn’t mean God sent them. Jezebel’s prophetic accuracy came from the demonic spirit of Baal.

• Has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.

• If Jezebel and Esther lived around the same time. Jezebel would hate Esther because she represents everything she is not. Esther has more power than Jezebel. To Jezebel Esther represents power and position without having to be evil and manipulative to get it.

• When you walk in the spirit of Esther (a proverbs 31 woman) you will be hated by those who have the Jezebel spirit.




Discerning the Spirit of Esther A Virtuous God Fearing, God Anointed Woman



As stated Esther is not a spirit, the spirit that she walked in was the spirit of God. She displayed characteristics a God fearing woman. In order to truly understand the spirit that she walked in we must understand Proverbs 31, which is about a virtuous woman. Virtuous means purity of heart, mind, and spirit. Virtuous means moral character, moral excellence and a righteous heart before God and others with whom she interacts with. If we are going to understand Esther’s spirit, we must consider and understand Proverbs 31. Again if we identify at least give characteristics, we know that this individual encompasses the spirit of Esther, otherwise known as a virtuous woman.


Proverbs 31:10-31Living Bible (TLB)

10 If you can find a truly good wife, she is worth more than precious gems!

11 Her husband can trust her, and she will richly satisfy his needs.

12 She will not hinder him but help him all her life.

13 She finds wool and flax and busily spins it.

14 She buys imported foods brought by ship from distant ports. 15 She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household and plans the day’s work for her servant girls.

16 She goes out to inspect a field and buys it; with her own hands she plants a vineyard.

17 She is energetic, a hard worker,

18 and watches for bargains. She works far into the night!

19-20 She sews for the poor and generously helps those in need. 21 She has no fear of winter for her household, for she has made warm clothes for all of them.

22 She also upholsters with finest tapestry; her own clothing is beautifully made—a purple gown of pure linen.

23 Her husband is well known, for he sits in the council chamber with the other civic leaders.

24 She makes belted linen garments to sell to the merchants.

25 She is a woman of strength and dignity and has no fear of old age.

26 When she speaks, her words are wise, and kindness is the rule for everything she says.

27 She watches carefully all that goes on throughout her household and is never lazy.

28 Her children stand and bless her; so does her husband. He praises her with these words:

29 “There are many fine women in the world, but you are the best of them all!”


30 Charm can be deceptive and beauty doesn’t last, but a woman who fears and reverences God shall be greatly praised.

31 Praise her for the many fine things she does. These good deeds of hers shall bring her honor and recognition from people of importance.[a]

So she was a powerful woman, but she had the heart for and from God. She is the complete opposite of the spirit of Jezebel. Let us consider some other characteristics of Esther.



Esther’s Spirit



• Willing to seek out godly counsel from others.

• Has fatherly godly influence.

• Submitted to leaders that God has placed before her.

• Kind

• Caring

• Nurturing

• Exhibits strength and honor.

• Honors her husband doesn’t try to overrule his authority.

• Is not self-seeking or self-serving

• Humility

• Humility

• Humility

• Respectful

• Modest

• Submits to God and His authority

• Advances God’s agenda not her own.

• Doesn’t give herself a title.

• Waits to be honored.

• Waits for divine instructions.

• A righteous heart

• Confident

• Has standards, won’t compromise them in order to gain success

• Understands who she is in God.

• Successful by her own means, is not co-dependent. She has been favored by God.

• Because her heart is pure before God, God Himself appoints her to positions of power and authority. She never has to disrespect anyone in the process of elevation.


There is so much more that we can say about this topic. However, this blog is already long, and I must bring it to a close. I encourage you to continue to study read I Kings 18 and go on through to see Jezebel and her reign, then read the book of Esther. Compare and contrast what you see. Remember Esther was honored by God, her husband, and a nation. While Jezebel dishonored God, dishonored her husband, who also dishonored God and dishonored a nation.



Again it is not that women can’t be in positions of power, authority and dominion we must go about it God’s way and not the way of Jezebel.



Samaria M Colbert © 2017



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