Personal but wisdom speaks. (WARNING DREAM)
I woke up from a warning dream. In the dream there was a woman who was married to a man. They had two children a boy and a girl. Both were successful in business, but the woman had more fame and was more successful than the man. In the dream they were taking their kids to a movie but he did things like not open the door for her, ignored her and mistreated her. Everyone knew it around them. He even went so far as to not sit next to her in the movie and took the kids to another part of the movie to watch while she sat alone. Again people around her noticed it. At the end of the dream there was a advertisement for a speaking engagement where the man was to speak. By the way he was also in ministry.
I woke up with the audible voice of God say, " Don't marry a man who is resentful of your success."
This was a warning dream to me and I thought to share because my fellow single sisters need to hear this. "Don't marry a man who is jealous, envious, or resentful of your success."
You know by observation and discernment when a man cannot handle the spiritual capacity of who your are and who God is molding you to be.
Look for warning signs. HOLY SPIRIT WILL NEVER LEAD YOU WRONG. By the way notice in the dream that the man was also MINISTRY. Because these dudes out here with titles are more messed up and broken then the ones without titles.
RED FLAG'S INCLUDE:
-If he gossips about other people more successful then him. (Business, ministry leaders etc) It doesn't matter how successful he is HE WILL BE Resentful toward you. Just give it time.
-If he is unconcerned and unbothered about your dreams and visions.......sis it's only a matter of time.
-If he has issues with authority.
-If he is a church hopper with no REAL spiritual leader. It doesn't take five and six years to find a church.
-If he is angry
-If he doesn't have REAL godly men around him. We all know yes people, but I am talking about people who hold you accountable.
-If he is passive aggressive or has an Ahab like nature.
-If he has an unhealthy attachment, or an dishonorable relationship with his own mother.
-If he lies (little lies) to impress you or to not be totally honest with you. If you'll lie once over a small matter.......you know where this is going.
-If he doesn't pursue you and you feel like your have to pursue him. (Don't do it sis!!!!!!)
-If he is guarded, Secretariat........
-If he pretends to be a baller when he is not.
I receive this warning. I hope you do to.